remember

A desire to express yourself more honestly is fine if you are sensitive as to how your message will be received. It's wiser to avoid delicate subjects now unless you're sure that the situation truly calls for it. Keeping your thoughts to yourself or engaging in light chatter is preferable to revealing too much and inadvertently hurting someone's feelings in the process.

Honey Trap

almost exactly like a sharp poke in the eye. the truth is always easily interpreted as an insult or a joke. why is it so general? so similar to the glimpses of the horror of normalcy. the terror that some feel about their own ordinariness. the more people are excluded, the more people will want to join. that's what exclusive means.  this is the honey trap. 

What a stupid smile

Its important to never ignore your intuitions. When you feel some slight aversion to doing something listen to it. Its a premonition.